Communication

August 09, 2011
JL

There’s a right way to handle letting someone know you’re not interested and a wrong way.

The Right Way: Tell the person

The Wrong Way: Ignore the person

Going “The Wrong Way” route is particularly disgusting when the two of you have been dating a while, are in a relationship, or if you’re...

November 10, 2010
JL

Over the years, I’ve had to tell many a man that I wasn’t interested in dating him just as men have told me they aren’t interested in all my amazingness – shocking, right?

Telling someone who obviously likes you that you don’t reciprocate the feeling isn’t always easy. Getting the words out is one obstacle and hearing his or...

November 05, 2010
JL

As the only female in an office of all male superiors, one day one of them said, “You’re more than just a pretty face.” Duh. I’ve always touted my intelligence and (amazingly) clever sense of humor as my strong points and never think of myself as just a pretty face, so when I think about his compliment I think about self-perception and...

October 18, 2010
JL

I read somewhere that on dates one should be interested and interesting. This means asking and answering questions thoughtfully. Don’t answer questions with one word or dominate the conversation by talking about yourself.

On my dates with B., he asked few questions. During our second or third date, he mentioned that his sister had...

July 23, 2010
JL

I saw a guy I’d gone on one date with at an event this week. Okay, not just any event. Date Night Magazine’s Launch party. I didn’t have a chance to say “hello” to him, so I sent him a text. This was our exchange (after reading, you’ll understand the title):

“Hi J- nice to see you last night at AltoRex. I’m sorry I didn’t have a chance...

May 19, 2010
JL

According to Match.com, your chances of receiving responses to emails that contain an overuse of exclamation points or smiley faces drop significantly compared to curbing the impulse: “For every ! or :), the email response rates drop by 10 percent—no kidding! And a double exclamation (!!) usually precipitates a 25 percent decline in response...

May 18, 2010
JL

My cell phone stopped working Sunday morning. I was out of the country at the time, so it didn’t matter either way, except that when I returned to Atlanta Sunday evening, I had no immediate way to let my friends and family know of my safe return.

Rather than call Verizon tech support Monday morning, I chose to go to a store to have the...